Yesterday we had 3 wedding related appointments. And really this was a lot, maybe 3 too many. Planning a wedding, as it turns out, is similar to planing a big art installation. The two most important things are true for both.

1. From the start you have to be very clear about what your vision.

2. You have to anticipate all the problems that might occur so that you can keep them from cropping up or squash them as soon as they arise.